how to stop thinking?

how to stop thinking?

Everyone asks me how to stop thinking, stop being a person now and the only answer is that there is no way. Stepping out of a relationship where no one and even yourself forbids you to reminisce about old memories and moments with the person you once loved. No matter how rational you are, surely nostalgia about your old love will come back to torment you, making you stay up all night and cry wet eyes.

Instead of wasting your body and mind like that, think like this, your life not only revolves around that person but also many other people who are more loving and precious. When you are sad, invite a few close friends to go out to talk, they will certainly listen and understand you better than that person. When you're sad, try going home and looking for your mother's arms. You can cry and whimper a little, confide in your heart and then consider putting all those sad memories into the box and throw it away.

Boy, your feeling may not fade away, can't be forgotten. You can't force your heart not to have feelings for that person. There is a very beautiful line in the song "One Thousand Pains" that I want to tell you:

"Memories I would like to keep, but you should just go"

You have the right to gnaw those sorrows and loneliness alone, but keep trying this time will pass, your heart will once again be healed by someone better out there.

And you, do you have any advice?

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When you love close and close to your mother, you will be like:

(this is a long time ago but think again tuk)

P/s: I don't intend to write this line, but I would like to confirm and emphasize that THIS IS ORIGINAL SUBJECTS, what are you talking about here, it's okay if other places don't record the source, now turn back and tell me chew? It's just me and stupid conversation, but do I need to remake so many versions 🙂

CHERISH

Have you ever tormented yourself: "If only I were more beautiful, if only I were a little smarter, better..." What is perfect beauty that makes people can spend a lifetime pursuing. , to seek, to aspire. Is that seemingly unreal beauty making us deny who we are? We hate our own special things to follow a common pattern with the label of "perfection".

People tend to focus only on their own shortcomings and compare themselves to others. Instead of always being self-deprecating, open your heart to those differences, making them shine and sparkle. Each of us is a beautiful flower in a fragrant garden, our job is to live and emit fragrance in our own way. Do not limit your possibilities and try to be any flower, because only when you accept your flaws and believe in yourself, then you are the most brilliant flower.

I hope everyone learns to love their own little things. Because our existence in this world is already a perfect thing.

“Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself” - Coco Chanel

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This is a series of photos inspired by the obsession with perfection and body dysmorphia. Please click on each photo to understand the story better ❤

From: Halloween 2022: THE ERROR