What does it feel like to have a family without conditions?

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Hi everyone, I'm a new member of the group

What does it feel like to have a family without conditions?

I was born in 2001, my family's situation is quite difficult, both parents are old, and this year, my younger brother has just started 1st grade.

When I went to school, I often had to skip breakfast to buy something, close something.

I'm very scared when I have to ask for money from my mother, sometimes I feel self-conscious about myself, going to school feels very stressed about tuition fees... as a brother, I feel even more pressured because of the feeling of having to bear the burden. whole family.

In my final year of high school, my friends all chose a university for me to continue my education, I also wanted to go to school, but my family's conditions did not allow me, so I was born and struggled to find a job. I do it, just hoping to earn some money to send back to my mother's hometown.

Last November, I received a call to enlist, February 16, 2022, I enlisted in the army for 6 months now. Although this is hard work, it is a good environment to practice and cultivate yourself. I plan to continue going to university after graduating, starting everything again at the age of 23. I like drawing very much, I must say I really love drawing so I will enter the art school that I want to. want to (study graphic design).

But the burden of food and money is on my shoulders, I will have to manage everything myself.

Do my parents understand what I'm doing?

Is my decision today correct? Is the 4 years I quit really useful?

I'm not sure I'll get a good job after graduation because the industry I study is always changing every day, requiring high creativity, the rejection in the profession is also very large.

There's still too much to worry about.

I want to share my story, and listen to people's opinions.

Can anyone give me some advice please.

I'm currently a 11th grader. Last summer, when I was about to enter 10th grade, I had a part-time job and shared a table with a doctor who was over 50 years old (uncle L). During the time of working together, Mr. L and I sat down to talk and he also said that he really liked me because I was quick and for some other reasons. Then in the new school year, I quit my job there. 

Until the other day, the boss at work sent me a message on fb and told her that she wanted to contact me. In the evening, Uncle L called me and asked me to be his adoptive mother and wanted me to come to his house for dinner. Uncle has 2 grown sons (27-30 years old), the oldest is married and the second brother is single. Uncle L also told me that he wanted to adopt me as his daughter-in-law because he liked me very much. Since yesterday until now, he has been texting and calling me constantly, he wants me to come and have a meal with his family. 

But now, I only know each uncle in my family and I am very shy when I go to Uncle L's house to have a meal with the two brothers. Should I refuse him or should I come to his house for dinner? Everyone please give me your opinion.

Thank you all for reading my post ❤

Hi there. I'm in 10th grade, and it's hard to integrate into the class, while the other kids are already close and teasing each other. In the class, there is a classmate from C1, so he often drives me home and I am only close to him in class. At recess, I sometimes hang out with my parents when I was in c2, because of the different classes, I can't hang out as much as before. 

At the beginning of the year, there was a male friend who noticed and texted me. I also find it a bit weird because his style is very rough even though he and I are not close. It's like he wants to be closer = calling me a dog. After a few times, I didn't reply much, mainly just what he asked. After that time, it was like avoiding me, avoiding it. I only socialize when needed with a few people around, but when we are together, I rarely talk to each other but just sit quietly. 

C2 I'm close with a lot of bgio, most of them go to different schools and different classes. I find it difficult to communicate when people don't want to talk to me. Or is it because I'm too quiet, so I think I'm cocky (from c2 bbe I said that when I first saw you, it was difficult to approach, it's cool)