I was planning to put the red book. Bm put it in the box.. I will take a photo of the key and wait for you to be away I will take the plug and invest in my idea. Because after I succeed, I will redeem the red book to put it in the box, so you won't know but I will earn money so that I can be proud and let me drop out of school to start a business 💜
I'm 1.52m tall but weigh 49kg, am I already fat? I get body shaming a lot, my biceps and calves are all told by the boys in my class, I bought 2 uniform dresses but when I wore them to school, I was criticized a lot for their rough legs so I didn't dare wear again. Everyone please give me your opinion
Toxic Parents? Are your parents toxic?
No one is perfect in the world, so it's normal for parents to accidentally make you sad or hurt and then heal them with love, but...for some parents they always put themselves first. "I want what I want, you buy it for me and if I have a problem, I can fix it myself"
Some Signs That Your Parents Are Toxic
1. They are the center
- "If you're hungry, don't worry, I want to drink beer and buy it for me", ...., their needs are always put first and they don't care about anything around them.
2. Doesn't respect you
- "What do you know? Eggs are smarter than ducks?"
They're always right and they don't care what anyone says no matter what they say
3. They are always in a mood swing
They can't control their emotions. When they heat up, the whole family always has to be silent for fear that they will explode if they do something unsatisfactory.
Very painful ? Living in a house like that was like living near ticking time bombs.
4. Always demand, control you to the highest degree
- "Who do you go with? What do you do? Where? Come back to me at 8 o'clock"
They use money, use threatening words in all ways because they always want you to listen to them because: "Fish don't eat salt, rotten fish, children argue with parents a hundred ways" living in a house always has to listen to proverbs.
This is usually a trait of toxic parents, but most often it's also of parents in Vietnam. Because Vietnamese people don't have the concept of listening to what their children are thinking because they just think that if they go ahead, they will experience more life, so they are b, but they are not at a different time than ours.
5. Always embarrass us with words
"Why are you so fat?, why are you so stupid?" The words destroy the confidence of the child who should have felt the water warm words from the place they were born but they find this place more disgusting than the outside world
6. Does not respect your privacy
- For those of you who are still living on the family economy, you often hear the saying "I build this house, I have the right, you are eating the rice I made, so I have the right" in case they always control what you do. What and what makes you feel frustrated and disrespected in your own home? Adults think that parents need to understand their children and their curiosity only makes you hate them more.
7. Finally, about your stipulation
-How do you feel when it comes to your family? Do you have feelings? please comment below
you will have negative feelings about your parents, you will feel miserable, feel very sad, and not feel comfortable at all when texting to visit them.
This is a very important pillar, no doubt when it comes to them, if you feel negative, they will be a toxic parent.
All of the above are signs of a toxic parent. If you find it interesting and feel like you are in such a situation, please comment and I will do more to deal with this problem ❤️
One thousand and one stories.
She scolded me for making her wait 15 minutes after school was over, it was raining heavily, she said she was jealous when she saw them picking up and dropping off each other and burst into tears. After I arrived at school, even though it was more than 2 hours before the evening shift started, I still waited at school alone and hugged my bleeding leg (because I went quite fast and collided with a dump truck on the intersection). ) because I knew I was late and upset her, so I didn't dare to scold her, but I apologized and hoped she would forgive me and the thing that made me sad the most was that she used my relationship with her to warn her not to there's next time. And whatever comes will come but the person who is late and misses the appointment is not me but her, I never wanted to use feelings as something to threaten or other purposes, I was just a bit angry and quiet.
And I used to say at the beginning of the relationship "I'll forgive you but what's more than 3 times won't be a 4th time because I'm going to break up with you" funny how many things have happened more than 3 times but The person who ended the relationship was her and with the reason that she was out of love.
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